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R&B singer Frank Ocean comes out: ‘My first love was a man’

by theGrio | July 4, 2012 at 10:00 AM
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Frank Ocean performs onstage at the 2012 Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival held at The Empire Polo Field on April 13, 2012 in Indio, California. (Photo by Karl Walter/Getty Images for Coachella)

Frank Ocean performs onstage at the 2012 Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival held at The Empire Polo Field on April 13, 2012 in Indio, California. (Photo by Karl Walter/Getty Images for Coachella)

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Rising R&B star Frank Ocean has officially come out of the closet. The singer posted a statement about his sexuality on his Tumblr page this morning, clearing up rumors that have been circulating since his new album was previewed for music critics. Ocean talks about falling in love with a man and the profound effect it had on him. Ocean wrote:

“4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too. We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Every day almost, and on the day we were together, time would glide. Most of the day I’d see him, and his smile. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless.”

Ocean’s revelation is especially compelling considering the fact that the 24-year-old crooner has long been affiliated with the alternative hip-hop collective Odd Future, a controversial group which has been routinely criticized for blatantly homophobic lyrical content. Still, that group’s frontman, Tyler the Creator, was nothing but supportive when the news of Ocean’s statement broke.

“F**king Finally Sus Boy @frank_ocean Hahahaha, You Still Aint Got No B*tches Hahaha My Ni**a Dawg.” “My Big Brother Finally F**king Did That. Proud Of That Ni**a Cause I KNow That Sh*t Is Difficult Or Whatever,” he tweeted.

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Ocean’s decision to come out is also historic from an African-American perspective. He is arguably the first and so far only major openly LGBT star in black music (with the notable exception of the disco era’s Sylvester) and for him to divulge his sexual preference at the stage is his career is undeniably daring. Hip-hop culture has been notoriously homophobic, and while there are some signs that anti-gay resistance in rap has diminished there are no openly gay rappers or singers in the mainstream of popular African-American music.

Frank Ocean exploded onto the music scene a little over a year ago with his critically acclaimed mixtape Nostalgia, Ultra. A high profile appearance on Kanye West and Jay-Z’s blockbuster Watch the Throne album only increased his buzz. His highly anticipated first official release, Channel Orange, is due out on July 17.

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