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Tyler Perry writes letter to 11-year-old Penn State victim

by Chris Witherspoon | November 28, 2011 at 11:44 AM
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“I don’t know your name, but I know your face. I don’t know your journey, but I know who you are. I am you brother!” said Tyler Perry.

These are the sentiments that the actor, director and producer expressed in an open letter he wrote to an 11-year-old boy involved in the Penn State scandal.

In the letter, featured in this week’s Newsweek magazine, Perry calls the young man courageous and reveals how he prevailed through being abused as a child.

I must tell you, what you have done is so courageous. The strength that it must have taken for your 11-year-old voice to speak out about such a horrible act is something that I didn’t have the strength or courage to do at that age.

I was a very poor young black boy in New Orleans, just a face without a name, swimming in a sea of poverty trying to survive. Forget about living, I was just trying to exist. I was enduring a lot of the same things that you’ve come forward and said happened to you, and it was awful. I felt so powerless. I knew what was happening to me, but unlike you, I couldn’t speak about it because no one saw me. I was invisible and my voice was inaudible.

So to think that you, when you were only 11 years old, spoke up—you are my hero! I’m so proud of you. You have nothing to be ashamed of. I want you to know you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s not your fault. Please know that you were chosen by a monster. You didn’t choose him. You didn’t ask for it and, most of all, you didn’t deserve it. What a huge lesson that was for me to learn. Your 11-year-old self was no match for wicked, evil tactics of this kind. You were hunted like prey. A pedophile looks for the young boys he thinks he can manipulate. The ones who have daddy or mommy issues, the ones who are broken, and the ones who are in need. But this wasn’t you.

You may have to go through with that trial, and you may feel all alone when you’re on that witness stand, but just know that there are millions of young boys and grown men who are standing with you—including me. If every man who has ever been molested would speak up, you would see that we’re all around you. You may not know all of our faces and names, but my prayer is that you feel our strength holding you up. You will get through this; you’ve already endured the worst part at age 11. Now fight on, my young friend, fight on! We are all with you.

This is not the first time that Perry has spoken out about being molested as a child.

In 2010 he sat down with his dear friend Oprah Winfrey to share his very emotional story about the molestation and child abuse which he endured.

Perry said that his mother’s death in 2009 gave him the strength to speak out about his troubled past.

During the interview he revealed that beginning at the age of 5, he was molested by three men, including a male nurse, a church member and a neighbor.

In follow-up show, Perry took a stand with 200 male victims of sexual abuse, to lift the veil of shame.

During the episode Perry revealed that a weight has been lifted since he first spoke about his painful past on The Oprah Winfrey Show. “I’m hoping that in talking about it, that it’s helping a lot of other men to be free, because there are so many of us who don’t say anything,” Tyler says. “The pressure lifts every time you talk, every time you are able to help someone else.”

Filed in: Entertainment, Top Stories | Related Topics: Jerry Sandusky, Molestation, Oprah Winfrey, Penn State, Tyler Perry
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