Why I did not attend the Women’s March
On Saturday (Jan.21), as throngs of women gathered to shout, listen and raise ironic signs in the name of “solidarity,” I felt little desire to join them — and by “them” I mean the marchers of the white variety.
The Women’s March on Washington that extended into a rallying of support by similar marches in cities all over the world was heavily supported by “them,” a “them” who has rarely had my black a** back. So to march alongside them, as Randy Jackson so eloquently put it, was a “no for me, dawg.”
Historically, white feminism is as critical of and as damaging to Black women as any other social construct in these here ‘United’ States of America. Their celebrated Women’s Suffrage Movement by-and-large was a soapbox for racism both before and after black men were given the (theoretical) right to vote *looks at Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Frances Willard*.
Fast forward to present day, and 53 percent of white women voted for Donald Trump (a stark contrast to the 94 percent of black women who voted for Hillary Clinton). These egregious inequities are the embodiment of a cold, hard truth: most white women are white first and women second. I didn’t feel compelled to stand beside them to protest a regime they had such a heavy hand in furthering.
I’m not trying to be Leslie Jones. What happened to Leslie Jones is a shining example of how black women continue to suffer at the hands of white feminism. The 2016 Ghostbusters reboot was championed as a “Punch in the D**k to All of Mankind,” bringing forth an all-female cast to offset its 1985 predecessor. As Jones took on the only black starring role in the film, the Twitter hate flooded in, with folks calling her all kinds of “apes” in 140 characters or less.
As she posted her emotional exit from Twitter amid the commentary that included insults like she was “the source of AIDS,” not one of her white co-stars – Melissa McCarthy, Kristen Wiig and Kate McKinnon – came forward in her defense. Jones was more than welcomed to champion the mainstream feminist agenda, but those who claimed to be in the trenches with her fell silent when things got real. I don’t want to march next to the Melissa’s, Kate’s and Kristen’s.
I’m good.
As I watched the Women’s March unfold on social media, several posts helped me nestle cozily into my decision not to attend:
1. This white woman who advised a Black woman to #StayOnMessage:
A black woman named Erika Totten resolved to show up to the Women’s March and remind the masses about how many white women voted for Trump. A white woman named Katie Ann Lancaster didn’t want that kind of negativity in her life.
Scarlett Johansson speaking at the #womensmarch when she willfully participates in whitewashing is the most white feminist thing ever
— Alternative Fact (@naledimashishi) January 21, 2017
Scarlett Johansson:
*speaks about womens reproductive rights*
*supports Israel, a state that oppresses Palestinian women & kills their kids*— Alternative Fact (@naledimashishi) January 21, 2017
I can see why WOC in the US find this march tricky
— Alternative Fact (@naledimashishi) January 21, 2017
@felicia_konan @naledimashishi She’s referring to people like this. pic.twitter.com/z60bgxXa9d
— Matthew A. Cherry (@MatthewACherry) January 21, 2017
2. The Amy Schumer’s, Ann Poehler’s and Lena Dunham’s were there:
Yes, the same Amy Schumer who thought it would be cute to “parody” Beyonce’s “Formation” video. Yes, the same Amy Poehler who executive-produced a show that included a joke about R. Kelly “pissing” on Blue Ivy. Yes, the same Lena Dunham who ranted about not being up to Odell Beckham Jr.’s “standards.”
“What Meryl said!” @amyschumer @UzoAduba #WomensMarch #MerylStreep pic.twitter.com/FS4NKyd1tj
— Meryl Streep Page © (@MerylStreepPage) January 22, 2017
I! LOVE! AMY! POEHLER! #WomensMarch pic.twitter.com/KbiilUg6qo
— minerva (@poehlerhart) January 21, 2017
We march to show our struggles are not isolated, but bound together by rainbow thread. I don’t rise if you don’t rise #WomensMarch
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) January 21, 2017
3. This. Photo. Right. Here.:
Says it all, TBH.
I have NEVER seen Black feminism and White feminism so effortlessly displayed in one photograph #WomensMarch pic.twitter.com/nBp2aX50JZ
— The Unorthodox Duck (@GeauxGabby) January 21, 2017
4. Cops wore pink hats in support. Not a single person was arrested in D.C.:
Because white women were so heavily involved, the reception of the Women’s March protests taking place around the country were met with quite a different reception than say, a Black Lives Matter protest…
I’m tired, y’all. Is it OK to be tired? Is it OK to just not want to continue screaming out to deaf ears? I know America, black women are always there. Black women are always fighting, always pushing everyone forward with little recognition in return. But is it OK to say ‘no’?
Yes, I believe in the general principles of women’s equality. I am pro-choice, anti-rape culture, a proponent of equal pay and civil rights for all women regardless of their sexual orientation, class, color or creed. I am a feminist. I do resist and oppose patriarchy.
So to that end, this is not a chastisement of any black woman who did decide to march. I see you, I respect you and I salute you. This was not the march for me, but I am with you in the spirit of every other black woman who has put this country’s f**kery on her back. I simply refused to champion a March that did not feel, unequivocally, like my own.
If yesterday were a ‘Women of Color March,’ who would have showed up?
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